Thursday 30 June 2011

When we get older .....

When we get older ......... we should be wiser.
Considering the knowledge and the experience that a person went through, they should be wiser .... right? SHOULD but it's not a must. Most people gain knowledge and learn as the day goes but for some, they don't learn anything. It's like their brain shrunk with no brain cells any more. They act as if they are the greatest, knows everything but in reality.....they are EMPTY.

When we get older ......... we should listen more.
Yes, listen more. Logically, when we get older, our senses will be less sensitive. Our hearing might be compromised at some point. So, we should be focusing on what we are listening rather than thinking that you know what people are saying when you can't even listen. Please listen to what people want to say. It might be useful to us and don't jump into conclusion without listening the whole story because it will be ANNOYING.

When we get older ......... we should talk less.
Talk less of unnecessary issues. Talk more on the good things. Talk something that will be useful for the younger generation. Maybe you were there during some historical moment which will be worth to share or maybe you had some experience that can be a  good lesson to them. So, tell them the good stories. Please don't talk about other people weaknesses or gossiping about other people. If you don't have anything good to say ...... DON'T SAY ANYTHING.

When we get older ......... we should be advising not nagging.
Nag, nag and nag. People say that you should have achieved a lot of things when you reach at certain age and when you achieved your objective, you'll be more contented. Supposedly, if you're contented, you'll have more advice to give to the younger generation. Help them to go through this life. Guide them the right way. Don't scold them unnecessarily and continues nagging them when they are not doing it right. PLEASE DO NOT NAG.

When we get older, we should have more knowledge, more experience, more sweet memories to share and life should be fuller and happier. We should EARN MORE RESPECT not DISRESPECT. We should be LOVE not HATE.

Dear friends. This is purely from my thoughts and I'm just reminding myself about getting older. Hopefully, it will help to remind others too.

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